No real,News, Democratic views in New Delhi

NO NEW REAL NEWS IN NEW DELHI

REAL NEWS IS IMORTANT PART DEMOCRATIC SOCIETY,CAN ONLY MAKE THIS NATION FREE FROM CORRUPTION AND MISDOING DONE BY OUR GOVERNANCE SYSTEM

When we can have fast metro of Korea fast food from America than why cannot have governed system of other countries those have developed faster and better.

I am making triangle of bonding which have 3 corners, one media another is government lastly and lonely connected public.

When we can have made china food, cloths and machines that why we cannot have political systems and news broadcaster like them.

FACTS AND DETAILS OF NEW DELHI NEWS JOURNALIST

These days’ news channels are advertising platform and journalist plays their role as advertising sales agents.

These days’ journalist portrays themselves as most learned and celebrated citizens of India.

Journalist are making reports on matters those create sensation and make veil on real issues so they are equally responsible for destroying facts and participating in making nation more corrupt.

These days all news channels business model listed companies those need income and always have their capital and equity participations from banks and government run institutions.

So news channels are not for the common people and by the common people.

Making hypothetical assumptions is name of critical news analysis of million INR salary journalists. These days top editors are highly paid corporate executives those can argue on any topic with any one and can put questions those starts with if and buts not on facts.

Reporting on assumptions and 10000 people survey in billion people economy is hard.

As we all know in India, all data’s are collected by any government agency are manipulated on which all journalist discus growth of country. Just imagine government distribute free food to  5000 people in rural district on India, where real population is only 3000 people.

Yesterday I find political journalist of 30 years of age making comments and reports on political bill which has been written by ink pen 40 years back. So how can make real comment on situation on which he or she has seen.

In age of electronic media we discus laws of social reform, business development those made in age of steam engine. So it is irony of journalist who is now helping poor governance and corruption in hidden manner.  In age of electronic voting system we follow Indian political system which meant for 50 crores of people way back in 1950 and these days we have 125 crore of population still following business and social system which made for less people.

So we are living dilemma of mix calculation which only news channels can clear and they are not doing it means they are also want to participate in supporting corrupt politicians.

Just top ruling party in India have only 12% of votes in 125 crore of population and only 550 political people making policy to rule.

What is this? Miscalculation or satire on democracy???

1-New Delhi Political journalist becomes food critic, sports critic and financial expert in same day.

2-Whole day news channels reports on raising level of Dead River during monsoon season.

3-International news editor of big news television making report on world trade summit, where India role is negligent.

4-Financial reporter making half comments on tax laws those affects only 20 companies those run by 200 people in billion people economy.

5-Lifestyle journalist travelling aboard and making comments on food?

6-Indain journalist stationed USA making comments on shoot out in New York, where same day has in New Delhi government has failed to run parliament.

7-News channel is reporting on Save The tiger campaign same day when in New Delhi people die because medical doctors are on strike.

8-News channel reporting for 3 days on death of super star from movies where as same day, 10 people die in local train in Mumbai and some one died because of bad road in New Delhi.

9-Business channel reporting on golf lesson where crew enjoys good time, same day as some airline business collapsed because of bad policies of government.

10-Same day sports channel is show old cricket match; where as some Indian player has won Chess world championships.

11-Same day top News editor is yelling at corrupt system of National political party where as same day some state had 50 communal riots death.

12-News channel showing God man’s preaching whole day where as, same day people die due to religious witch hunt somewhere in rural part of the country.

13-News anchor making expert comments and wrong doing and failure of big government education policy which failed to offer good education in government run schools.

14-News channel reporting on bad methods on admission process of private school, where in the city government failed to open their low fees based school and 10 private school building developed in one year. So they don’t show why government not opening schools but making reports on public schools.

14-Fianacial news reporting on price hike of vegetables not mentioning why government not managing price on their hands. They mention that farmer sells potato for INR 4 and its transport cost is INR5 to get is sold. So why government is not subsidizing transport cost of food items as most of develop ended nations like USA and Germany do.

15-Business editor in finance news channel making comments and recommendation on Mutual fund and equity market, where as 25 funds are having court cases pending. Business reporter making report on oil, gas and wind power generation company where has he or she has studied history in is collage degree.

16-Travelling in airplane, sitting in air conditioned studios senior journalist making comments on poor stage of farmers and laborers those dying of hunger.

17-Journalist, with age of 30 and came to New Delhi 10 years back making reports on New Delhi’s tourism, food and fashion.

18-Lifestyle channel journalist making food report of Italian food, as we have only 20 places to serve Italian food in Delhi. Top journalist writes in English about his stay at five star hotels.

So here lifestyle journalists without any proper education and experience are making expert comments on topics those not relevant to views and journalist enjoying their job of travelling, eating good food and having good time.

All these solution can be reported and discussed in news papers and news channels can make this country better. News and views shared faster and better in television as large number of people can watch at one time. Onus on over news broadcaster lies, if they can show truth only than we can have better government.

After Second World War, where propaganda of news made huge difference to stop hate war and deaths of many people in Europe. Cold war between USA and Russia had very important impact of news. Chain and USSR changed their political system because their news channels and news paper reported truth and solutions in the news.

Here, in India blame news broadcaster more that our political and government systems. Government system can accepts computer in name of change than why not their formation and working. All these matters have been discussed in news in every part of world.

Commenting and making any negative and wrong remark on any situation is the easiest thing our news makers do.

Discussing a problem is part of big news?

Sharing gossips of films, comedy and cars part of prime news channels?

City named New Delhi which doesn’t have good government schools and hospitals, its news channels show how to save tigers and make food show on news channels.

It is funny to find same news group having their own lifestyle, food and sports channels, still broadcast comedy and save the tiger show in news channels on the same day when government passes wrong bill and government don’t agree to make hospital for public use.

Just imagine one north east state is having communal deaths for two months and no solution is present but our news reporters travelling and reporting the problems only and making situation sensational and worse.

We newer get news on any government’s wrong issues? Just imagine we don’t know why one politician holds so many positions in government run organizations and holds for years?

India is very populated and having very complex constitutional system. We all know these and talk about change in system, but we need to have information on this issue which only news channels and news paper can provide, which they don’t do, why why why????????

Our news channels of repute show film gossips, talks on tigers, discussion on crime done by criminal and views on international rainfall. It is satire on them that they don’t show news and views that affects normal citizen but showing comedy and sports news on national news channels.

So news channels are comedy, film and sports channels are together.

Yelling on corrupt politicians and making sting operation on corrupt government official is breaking news these days?

Making out all false and negative moves of any situation is name of reporting.

Asking how you do feel when person’s relative dies by drunken fast car rich driver is name of good reporting.

It is funny to find reports on silly matters those doesn’t even affect 100 people in the population of billion people.

Why news channels fear to present real picture and solution to our society which is facing the worst time in country where we have the best computer, science and brains available in the society?

What and how government does, we don’t know? Why government doesn’t run good education institute and hospitals?

Why government doesn’t check the quality of food we eat?

These entire simple questions are not asked and raised by our news people. All news people think they are doing business of advertising only

I am making this feature as citizen who has been born in New Delhi, city that operates the biggest and the oldest democracy in the planet earth. Here I portray role of information and news which normally affects the normal and casual citizen of democracy in the capital of nation. As literate citizen being born and brought up in New Delhi where we witness all happenings of politics and government operation live on television and 15 years back on newspaper.

Distracted information and advantage of life to overcome situation that can make things better for civilize society.

News plays very important role in the democratic and large population, as it affects the lifestyle, financial standing and formation of society. But here I say that we don’t get real news and views from our newspapers and television. As our democratic structure is that we don’t get real facts on how government is making use of money on society and city.

Here we don’t get clear roads, water and education from government. Even our food items sold in the New Delhi are not up to the quality standards. So what is happening is not real and true.

We can ask only but we don’t get solution of any problem.

Why government and bureaucrats only gets good housing and security?

Why government doesn’t run good education and hospitals?

Why our housing prices are not regulated by government?

Food, shelter and cloths are three common things person require. Here we don’t have any control on prices and quality of these three items.

We say we live in developed city with metro and big roads but we need good and economical education and medical facilities. Which normally not provided by government and our news people never show and highlight basic information and discussion on these matters.

Just imagine that all politicians gets the best of offices houses and security, still they doesn’t perform for public services and no news has been developed on this topics.

Please think on my point of view, that if we have good media than we can have good governance, because in billion people country all billion views cannot go to government and government cannot send their work in public. So media is bridge between public and politicians. That bridge should be honest, true and informative.

We have seen that creation of morality and country love came from books, newspapers, radio and these days from internet in USA and China. So we need to have true journalists.

I not blaming media, I am asking them to be informative as they should be simple reporting from situation we get even from our 5 year old kid who narrates his school lunch fight every day, which seems repetitive from our childhood days. I hope I made my point clear.

Written after getting shocking news in media this year of 2012,where India had trillion dollars of scam, nation running on old paper files and asking for 3Ginternet connections, nation which cannot have computerized social census number even though we have the best computer brains available.

Writing By  Shailesh Sharma Pokhriyal,

At home in Dawarka August to September 4, 2012

Dal…Delhi…Dill(means heart in Hindi)…Dinning…Dawat (means party in Hindi)

DAL—NEW DELHI FOOD FOR NORTH INDIA---NEW DELHI DAL….

You know Dal so important part of New Delhi that its taste effects family life, its price effects economy and politics and its presentation and cooking makes even street vendor fear full.

So Dal is integral part of New Delhi.

 This month of August, so here I am writing on Dal, as we celebrate our Independence Day on 15^th August every year, witnessed Yoga Guru’s society and political change movement, Muslim festival EID and Hindu festival Raksha Bhandan.

Still I say I am all right to write on Dal.

Romantically good Dal can win hearts of anyone. Good Dal for me makes best family friends where I go for dinner

Dal…Delhi…Dill(means heart in Hindi)…Dinning…Dawat (means party in Hindi)

Dal, curry of thoughts, protein, energy, vegetarian and full meal for every poor and rich citizen of New Delhi, oh no full whole nation, India.

Any type of pulses prices affects the politics of not only New Delhi, but whole nation. So you can understand the importance of pulses in our society, politics and health.

Going into it is business, you will be shocked and get informed that 99% of Dal and daily fresh vegetable business is unaccounted.

Dal from farmers to mill those process the Dal are non-accounted and we can find most of the rich without any listed equity based business houses. Trading of Dal is among the oldest business of mankind. Here we have silk route from where Asia, China and Europe get connected for Dal, spices and silk.

So Dal is very important part of India, which normally have base in New Delhi in terms of food lovers, traders and restaurants.

Yellow, black white and brown colored pulses have different Indian names like Ahrar, Malka, Massor  etc. But yellow and black massor Dal is the most commonly used and served both at home and hotels.

You know you can cook Dal in 5 minutes with pressure cooker and for fine dines and exclusive taste chefs and home cook says it for 24 hours in low heat on charcoal or wood heat in food grade brass pan.

COMMON NAMES OF DAL

1-YELLOW DAL 2-DAL THARKA(Tossed Dal with herbs and heavy Indian butter or oil)

3-DAL MAKAHNI(Buttered) 4-DAL WITH KIDNEY BEANS

5-MIX DAL

Dedicated dal lovers like me normally try to soak Yellow and black Dal with Kidney beans for 10-15 hours before start cooking. After boiling in pressure cooker with make cashew nut paste and sallow fry it with lot of heavy Indian pure oil. We call it Dal Makahni, means Dal with butter and chesses. This is the Dal, which means

Dal is curry made with available pulses, seasoning, spices and water. Boiled and than tossed with onion, garlic, ginger and spices. Easiest cooking menu which is done in almost every household in India. Its taste normally depends upon the water content and spices we add. Same Dal seeds taste varies within 20 kilometer of distance within whole nation. Seasoning or adding salt content counts a lot into taste.

We can get Dal in many forms and very low price to high price, means you can get Dal for 25 $cent or INR 20 TO 2$or 110INR/ one portion or for one person. In five star hotel and restaurants we get medium portion of Dal for $10 OR INR 550 to $50 or INR 2700 depending upon reputation of the place.

After long time a try to keep my emotion on food, as you know August is humid month of the year here in New Delhi. Apart from hot and dry season we had some political rallies those keep my mind occupied. Also this month we normally keep rains cooling town temperature but this year less rains kept food mood out. You know normally during rainy season as per priest of Hindus, it is advised not have non vegetarians food and food from out side homes during rainy season food is normally contaminated with rain water and humid season, it is not a present day advise, it has been written in our holy books those are supposed to be 2000 year old.

So here rationally we have some good advice to keep our self healthy.  

BEST PLACES FOR DAL IN NEW DELHI

All five star hotel in New Delhi serve Dal of all types which I have mentioned but problem is they charge like rocket fare means USD 15 TO 70,where as you can get good dal for 3-5USDin any fine dine small restaurants. Yes to pay more once in the blue moon is fine, once I tried Dal for INR 2000, means USD 40.

BOKHARO, TAJ, MERIDIEAN, OBERIOS AND LEELA in central and South Delhi are best five star hotels to have Dal.

Fine Dine Restaurants

1-Pandara road, Central Delhi, I don’t want to name it but all are good.

2-Moets in Defense colony

3-Punjabis road side Dhaba outside main Lajpat Nagar market

4-Punjabi by nature in Vasant Vihar

5-All cooperative clubs like NSIC,VASANT VIHAR etc

STREET SHOPS THOSE HAVE HYGENIC SPACE-

Normally every part of city had one street vendor or small take away joint serving Dal, we need to consult local resident, as at my locality I have some small vendors those butter fry Dal in front of me and charge USD 1.5 OR INR 80/ for 2 portion of Dal.

Some time I try in afternoon vendor at that time he had opened the shop and seems bit cleaner than evening and he charges onlyUSD0.90 INR 40 for good 2 portion of Dal. So it is matter of choice and quality. Money does not matter as long as you need to enjoy taste of particular day.

1-In front of New Delhi railway station

2-By lanes of Phar Ganj, Karol Bagh etc

You know we can have a really good Dal and Roti, Indian bread cook book with reviews of New Delhi restaurants. It will take time for me to work on this but I think we can do some 100 pages book on that topic that is good for all Indians and those travelling New Delhi for first time.

Any type of pulses prices affects the politics of not only New Delhi, but whole nation. So you can understand the importance of pulses in our society, politics and health.

Going into it is business, you will be shocked and get informed that 99% of Dal and daily fresh vegetable business is unaccounted.

Dal from farmers to mill those process the Dal are non accounted and we can find most of the rich without any listed equity based business houses. Trading of Dal is among the oldest business of mankind. Here we have silk route from where Asia, China and Europe get connected for Dal, spices and silk.

So Dal is very important part of India, which normally have base in New Delhi in terms of food lovers, traders and restaurants.

So here I am writing on Dal, as we celebrate our Independence Day on 15^th August every year.

  A day where British colonial regime liberated us and donated back our nation to most manipulated politicians.

No no I am not political writer

So read about food….

Shailesh Sharma Pokhriyal

11-18^th August 2012

In my house and restaurants as I am not allowed to eat non veg for last one month so I tried Dal in different forms and places.

Thank God, I am not New Delhi journalist…….

Thank God, I am not New Delhi journalist…….

Please forgive me; I am not trying to defame any profession and person. Here I am also not portraying myself and political critic.

The most admired and fast developing city in Asia, city with touch of everything; politics, business, sports, media and all four seasons given to us by mother nature. But the most important part of modern economy and city is news and views expressed and publicized by any form of broadcast medium are turned annoying or not to mention bad word called unacceptable.

These days television journalist and their directors portray themselves as the most privileged and celebrated citizens of India those have the best knowledge and can say and show anything their or their so called political and business friends like to.

For example in New Delhi we don’t have proper hospitals and public schools, but news channels promote and advertise private schools where they say we have Oxford or Stanford qualified teachers.

 Where common middle and poor class will go. New Delhi where we have pay tax just to use roads and need to have own water purifiers and electricity generations.

Do we as writers and those address events and situations in any form to community need to go for real issues in simple format?

I don’t know why I write on issues that matters to me or my community I live? But I try to focus on all good and bad parts and events of the city which I love to live called New Delhi. Please don’t blame city, politicians and governments officials only we as citizens, journalist and writers need to address real issues. One thing more here we find that we raise issues at sensational level to get readership. Why television channels and news papers make reports those have only done to create sensationalism and blaming city administrations.

Why we show debates among different political parties and so called top qualified news editors portray themselves as judges?

I live down town of New Delhi, district called Dawarka which has 2 million people moved in just span of a decade and we don’t have hospital and here people talk about local policies makes money with land grabbing.

Oh my God? Hello, please make real life topics on priority….

Being judgmental, critical informative means good news reporter. Time has made sensational part of news made very important part of news reporting. Television news channels made gimmicks and irrational news like conman or fatal accident reports are more important than any reality reporting. News television channels need film reviews and stand up comedians to cover air time on particular day.

Managing one political news coming every hour with twist or words and with different anchors is name of the game.

Food and restaurants views are made by novice journalist or just being celebrity is called food reporting these days. Some news channels are promoting self proclaimed God man and ghost reports. Some English news journalist are making reports on Tiger conservation and economic slow down like they are true patriotism.

I am just putting my views as normal writer and citizen of this beautiful city named New Delhi.

English news channels journalist present themselves as so judgmental that they can make satire on anyone because they think their Oxford degree and vocabulary skills are better that any person.

I feel, today news channels and news paper are giving true and clear reporting and critical views. New Delhi, being so big city here we have everything from politics to art to big corporate to big sporting events. Here we are into the time of specialization.

It is not like that one can do reporting on all topics. It is funny to find one of the experienced political journalist making comments on food.

Top music writer or journalist becomes high paid editor of daily news paper. Hello knock, what is happening?

I like my city so much, that I seek support from news sellers to make it honest, clear and honest.

Today news channels are the mirror of any city, nation and its people.

Today making money is more important than loyalty to our job. In any civilized community, state or country, newspaper and television news channels play very important part.

As we are into 21^st century where television and internet is the best method to distribute news and views with touch of a button.

Here question is are we getting real and true news and views?

New Delhi being capital of nation has the top rated new channels and new papers in the country. All together in whole India we have the largest number of news television channels in different languages in the world.

In any form of social community we need people to get governed by the people for the people. All these people those are not in the governing community which is always lesser in number than of people in community need to be get informed of movements of governing body and rules those made and followed by governing body.

Here, in New Delhi all governing body heads live and manage their offices to organize 120 corers of people in the largest democracy in the world.

I am not qualified or posses any professional degree and training as journalist, but I suppose and presume that presenting and reporting in words or visual true picture of any event  is primary job of any journalist. Are you getting this?

Written By Shailesh Sharma Pokhriyal in 3 months April to July 2012

Dawraka New Delhi

NEW DELHI CAN MAKE CHANGE THIS SYSTEM OF LIFE WE LIVE? Change is law of nature, FOLLOW AND ACCEPT

NEW DELHI CAN MAKE CHANGE THIS SYSTEM OF LIFE WE LIVE? Change is law of nature, FOLLOW AND ACCEPT

Be positive and participate in change of system of our living, as we need social system and political system to get organized. Politics is not business of making profits and ruling today. Personally we need to change this voting politics and make the system where we all participate in systems how we live in this country.

As we are born and based in New Delhi and witness all political movements closely so we need to raise our voices loudly. Participate in political system to change.

New Delhi is positive and political city in the great nation India. But a few votes makes differences and puts one billion people in confused stages of their professional and social life which the up to large extent don’t like. Here I want to say that, very few votes makes our government as we have only 60-70% voters listed and normally winner gets 10% votes of our total population and only 570 people and few thousand top government IAS decides our life of over billion people.

I am not getting political or media person, I am common man looking to change system where all live together and listen to each other not to fight system but asking government system to listen to us also.

Why we say politics and politician is wrong profession, why only putting our problems in form on media news, agitation and letters send my NGOS is the only way. We have seen al these matters, here result is zero, as common citizen we got to nothing.

Wake up and say your mind and heart. Change can happen, if we even just think positive to accept change. We need change in our political and government system. Time has come here just one vote or one exam shall don’t decide how you and I live in the nation. Why all privileges are with politician and government bur official, media and lawyers in the nation. We as corporate professionals, common workers, farmers, helpers and so called working class will go to present how we want to live in this country, where we have born. Television and computer has made us aware of all things we see and listen whatever we want. So why cannot we present our say on how we want to get governed by government.

You know some time I find myself as common farmer not a corporate professional here we make way to make things happen with our business and market economic brains, on other hand farmer also make way out to grow crops to make his living, we are not entitle to complain because farmer has no where to go and we as professional need to survive in the competition. So professional workers and farmers are on same platform living mercy to accept. As farmer living on mercy of rains and government water, professional on market system and company directors. Farmer gets reward of living in non polluted life in village and professional rewarded as live in cars and air-conditioned office.

I feel as professional we live in material and unreal life .Our bosses say they follow government policy to decide how we work and share our profits with us.

So at last we all are managed and manipulated by governments. So here I feel pity about private business owners also those need to involve themselves to dirty nature of governments professional

Let’s thinks and make changes in our political system.

We as Indian have accepted all changes from living, eating, education and even marriage also. So we should accept that change is law of nature. Our political electoral system is too old and need to change, our national love is changed, our moral and self dignity emotions have been changed. So what we are waiting try change as we have done in our eating habits.

A thing which hurts any human being we try changes, so please follow any one, I am not suggesting Anna or Ramdev, and it is individual’s choice. Listen to your heart. Try to find what is good for you. But remember one thing we need change.

Secondly don’t follow news channels. As they have put in negative wipes to the nation is last 60 years. Be positive and make sure you make your point to look for change.570 people sitting in parliament are not entitle to finalize how we live in our own nation. Just passing one exam called IAS or top journalist does not give permission to decide what you and me as common citizen of nation wants.

I am not political inclined but asking to find change where we feel we live in a nation where I feel we all are same and need to fight for systems. System, government and citizens are same when we say we live in one nation.

Written By Shailesh Shrama Pokhriyal

After witnessing movements of Anna and Ramdev….in month on July and August 2012,New Delhi streets,Janter Manter and Ramlilla Maiden

River London Thames rowing Queen, New Delhi where have you been?

River Thames rowing Queen, New Delhi where have you been?

I feel jealous a bit not too much.  After watching river Thames gets so many bridges walkways, rowing the Queen, musical stage on the bank and fresh fish to eat. It’s June and humid hot summers in the city New Delhi. Every one need stroll on the bank of river or sea to get fresh. We had flowing river which is no more a river now.

It is my satire for the city and its people I of my city New Delhi.

Summer River cries to its people those she feeds

Hold summers wave and try to breathe hard

New Delhi’s June make the sun to creed

Rivers, River hold my breath give me bread.

Flow like flamingo and sound like flute

Here we worship, but where are the ship to float

Oh my city river Yamuna, don’t cry

You and me both are coy

Those make it dirty should feel shy

Watching and praying you from distance

Wishing to find soft flow, small fish and confidence

Bluish and moon lit like the thames of London

Wooden and iron bridges are not seen

Where have you been?

Rowers row without boarding the Queen

New Delhi had the river and horses when I was teen.

Hold summers wave and try to breathe

New Delhi’s June make the sun to creed.

I don’t know am I correct here?

Comparing New Delhi with the London. But up to some extent am I right, after watching London’s Queen golden jubilee celebrations on river Themes. Here I feel bit parallel as we also have river and roots of Queen’s rule, which our so called elected parliament rules us, same like Queens Governors 66 years back.

But here I am concerning the system and running a city. New Delhi has everything as per world standards, but we lack commitment of citizens and planners to make it happening city like London where 20 million tourists visit, for just have good food and pleasant walks, theatres and music from all over world.

Where we are lacking behind in New Delhi comparing with London in terms maintain city. Blame it on to hot weathers and slow planning of Government. Here we have to blame migrants those coming in the city and making city over loaded and all migrants come for money and have less commitment towards city. Second our planners are so much slow in this age of high speed internet.

So here I am not saying to stop migration of people in New Delhi but saying love the city, the river and its people. Say lovely hello to all.

Here is satire to the city I love New Delhi, which has not seen bombing and spying own friends in the daily life, yes we have seen depressed rule of colonizers like British.

But I still say those took a lot but today over government are giving less to its citizen.

Oh I am not political here but for the enlistment of city food, culture and its past I am saying this. Hope my publishers like this.

Below statement for our planner of city named New Delhi, which takes a lot from us and gives less.

We can think of city like London made around river Themes which has seen 2 devastating world wars and toxic wastes of Manchester city textiles mills for 100 years.

Written After Watching Diamond Jubilee Celebration of Queen of England…I missed status of my city New Delhi.

7^TH OF JUNE 2012

By  Shailesh Sharma Pokhriyal

Shailesh and New Delhi-Rajpath

Married Boys Party and Day out New Delhi

Married Boys Party and Day out New Delhi

Come weekend in my city, Feeling loud and naughty

Calling old boys from school those have now fat belly

Feeling relax with alcohol and talks those are really not funny

Nice gays gets washed away

Streets, loud music looks better than candle light dinner

Middle age cries every one feels like loser or asking for favor

Party in car, oh, New Delhi pubs and hotels are getting costlier

True friends to listen things those I care, everywhere

No classic or dirty movies and books to watch and share

O’Hare we are getting older?

New Delhi is getting fast, musical, western and thoughtfully clear.

Poetry on  New Delhi married straight boy’s day out in New Delhi…24/2/12

Keep away jealous and super clever person in your group.

Please don’t drink and drive

Have a good and healthy talk, as we meet once these days in months.

Man is known by the company he keeps.

I hope I am not getting personal here. I am here to tell my readers about married boys day out plans in the city I love New Delhi.

In context, with Indian, lifestyle and culture, where we live in family. Marriages are meant for one wife one husband whole life system. Sometime we go out to have time without family and kids.

In Europe and USA, we can go out at nightclub where you can have hookers and dance shows to enjoy, but here in India, it is illegal, immoral and not accepted.

So, please don’t think about that.

Driving out in street, where we walked for school with water bottlers, sitting on pavements of market place where we spend whole teenage, or just chilling out in a bar, which earlier we cannot able to in our school or collage days.

Just sitting at friends place, where kids and wife are away, having drinks, kababs, loose talks and some times dirty or classic movies to watch.

You when we had stress of work, family responsibilities, traffic woes, money matter and bills honks whole week, we seek solace of mind and soul. I know alcohol, food and music makes best things to make matter cooler.

At middle age, where we can express less to family and more to friends, means realty true friends those care.

I don’t know after writing this what my wife will say because for last two weekends, I am out with friends, but last week had long party started from one drive in restaurants to a stag disco in south Delhi and dinner at 2 AM in central Delhi, This weekend which started I had short party at my place, with short drinks and one course non Vega dinner served with fresh ROTIS.

It is always better to hangout with like minded friends once a week, All over globe this is the best time married men gets. Oh my God shall be paying two weekends eating out to wife if she reads this, anyways anything for friends’ day out.

PLACES FOR BOYS DAY OUT IN NEW DELHI---

Money matters, depends how much you have spend and how. So plan accordingly, as weekends have full house in all Central and South Delhi’s pubs.

High end bars and hotels-1500 INR OR30USD per person with 2-3 drinks and 3-4 course meal.

Pubs and bars-Budget is normally INR 800 or 14USD per person with 2 drinks and one course meal.

PLAN A--Plan drinks at happy hours and have dinner at some kind of normally restaurants. This way you can have to spend 300 on drinks and 200 on food per person.

IF YOU HAVE DRIVER WITH YOU----

Have drinks at car and meal at any joint here you can have per person 200INR TO 500 INR, depends on your eating place and drinks brand.

NOT RECOMMENDED FOR HEAVY DRINKERS

DONOT DRINKS AND DRIVE—IT IS BAD, SIN

Normally, south and central Delhi have the best eating out and pubs in the city, where we can have cosmopolitan and foreigner visitors celebrating evening with all type of cuisines and drinks.

So here I am not making point to recommend any place.

1-PUBS 2-MOVIES OR THEATER DAY OUT 3-THEME RESTAURANTS

BOYS OR STAG PARTY CULTURE OF EUROPEANS FROM 1800

In the England, way back to 1800, after industrial revolution, it is now common for the party to last for more than one long evening in weekend or otherwise, increasing prevalence of the phrase "stag weekend".

From times of having literacy and Victorian lifestyle, men needs to go out with friends to have time where he can talk life and day’s experience without responsibilities of family.

Going by moral values and lifestyle, men normally goes out with friends in decent pubs, eats out, games show and theater to enjoy and relax from work and family 

responsibilities.

In India, during 1700 till late 1900,life of men getting relax moves around marriages, religious functions, theater and some time friends get other at home.

Eating out, drinking, pubs long drive, weekend homes came in late 1980 and in 2000,it became part of life style ,because of good money flow among youth and excess knowledge given by television and internet.

Here we are in India, especially New Delhi, we have culture, music. Drinking, games and you name it friends groups going out weekly or monthly and having good time.

From wiki

 Bachelor parties in the US often entail the mass consumption of alcohol, the hiring of a stripper and general rowdiness toward which the bride might not have a positive reaction (especially since the bride is typically not among the invitees).

Increasingly, bachelor parties have come to symbolize the last time when the groom is free of the influence of his new wife.

A bachelor party (Canada, South Africa and the US), also known as a stag party, stag night or stag do (especially in Commonwealth countries and Ireland), a bull's party (South Africa), or a buck's party or buck's night (Australia), is a party held for a man shortly before he enters marriage, to celebrate his "last night of freedom" or merely to spend time with his male friends, who are often at his wedding party afterwards.

COMMUNALLY THOUGHTS AND EVENTS PEOPLE DO

• Drinking - What party wouldn't have a lot of drinking? Since bachelor/ette parties are all about letting it hang out, drink harder.
• Pubs & Restaurants-Sitting in pub and watching and drinking with mood where you think nothing.

• Empty Friends house –Sitting at friends house where kids and wife are away, having dance drinks and dirty talks whole night long.

• Cook’s friends dinner-Going at friends who cooks well for friends and eating out good food friends had made.

• Gambling - For some reason gambling is sometimes present at bachelor parties. It is appropriate for a cut of the house winnings to go to the "stag" (the fund that is given to the groom at the end of the party).

• Drinking Games - You are going to need to drink fast and what better way to do it than drinking games (well, you could just drink shots).

• Eating greasy food - Pizza is good, buffalo wings, a gigantic sub, burgers, fried chicken, all of these are appropriate for a bachelor party.

• Playing With Party Favors - Part of the fun will surely be had with party favors.

• Dirty Jokes - OK, its time to tell the really raunchy ones. You know the ones that are not acceptable in the office.
• . Watching movies with friends

• More Drinking - If someone isn't out of control, you need to drink some more. Have you seen our guide to bachelor and bachelorette drinks?

We are gentleman and living in India, so talk about moral duties more than other talk which I suppose I am not able to write.

Anyways, happy reading and keep away from loose talks while going out with friends. Keep away jealous and super clever person in your group.

Please don’t drink and drive

Have a good and healthy talk, as we meet once these days in months.

I hope to write more on this topic in my book.

Man is known by the company he keeps.

THANKS

SHAILESH SHARMA POKHRIYAL

24/2/2012