Married Boys Party and Day out New Delhi

Married Boys Party and Day out New Delhi

Come weekend in my city, Feeling loud and naughty

Calling old boys from school those have now fat belly

Feeling relax with alcohol and talks those are really not funny

Nice gays gets washed away

Streets, loud music looks better than candle light dinner

Middle age cries every one feels like loser or asking for favor

Party in car, oh, New Delhi pubs and hotels are getting costlier

True friends to listen things those I care, everywhere

No classic or dirty movies and books to watch and share

O’Hare we are getting older?

New Delhi is getting fast, musical, western and thoughtfully clear.

Poetry on  New Delhi married straight boy’s day out in New Delhi…24/2/12

Keep away jealous and super clever person in your group.

Please don’t drink and drive

Have a good and healthy talk, as we meet once these days in months.

Man is known by the company he keeps.

I hope I am not getting personal here. I am here to tell my readers about married boys day out plans in the city I love New Delhi.

In context, with Indian, lifestyle and culture, where we live in family. Marriages are meant for one wife one husband whole life system. Sometime we go out to have time without family and kids.

In Europe and USA, we can go out at nightclub where you can have hookers and dance shows to enjoy, but here in India, it is illegal, immoral and not accepted.

So, please don’t think about that.

Driving out in street, where we walked for school with water bottlers, sitting on pavements of market place where we spend whole teenage, or just chilling out in a bar, which earlier we cannot able to in our school or collage days.

Just sitting at friends place, where kids and wife are away, having drinks, kababs, loose talks and some times dirty or classic movies to watch.

You when we had stress of work, family responsibilities, traffic woes, money matter and bills honks whole week, we seek solace of mind and soul. I know alcohol, food and music makes best things to make matter cooler.

At middle age, where we can express less to family and more to friends, means realty true friends those care.

I don’t know after writing this what my wife will say because for last two weekends, I am out with friends, but last week had long party started from one drive in restaurants to a stag disco in south Delhi and dinner at 2 AM in central Delhi, This weekend which started I had short party at my place, with short drinks and one course non Vega dinner served with fresh ROTIS.

It is always better to hangout with like minded friends once a week, All over globe this is the best time married men gets. Oh my God shall be paying two weekends eating out to wife if she reads this, anyways anything for friends’ day out.

PLACES FOR BOYS DAY OUT IN NEW DELHI---

Money matters, depends how much you have spend and how. So plan accordingly, as weekends have full house in all Central and South Delhi’s pubs.

High end bars and hotels-1500 INR OR30USD per person with 2-3 drinks and 3-4 course meal.

Pubs and bars-Budget is normally INR 800 or 14USD per person with 2 drinks and one course meal.

PLAN A--Plan drinks at happy hours and have dinner at some kind of normally restaurants. This way you can have to spend 300 on drinks and 200 on food per person.

IF YOU HAVE DRIVER WITH YOU----

Have drinks at car and meal at any joint here you can have per person 200INR TO 500 INR, depends on your eating place and drinks brand.

NOT RECOMMENDED FOR HEAVY DRINKERS

DONOT DRINKS AND DRIVE—IT IS BAD, SIN

Normally, south and central Delhi have the best eating out and pubs in the city, where we can have cosmopolitan and foreigner visitors celebrating evening with all type of cuisines and drinks.

So here I am not making point to recommend any place.

1-PUBS 2-MOVIES OR THEATER DAY OUT 3-THEME RESTAURANTS

BOYS OR STAG PARTY CULTURE OF EUROPEANS FROM 1800

In the England, way back to 1800, after industrial revolution, it is now common for the party to last for more than one long evening in weekend or otherwise, increasing prevalence of the phrase "stag weekend".

From times of having literacy and Victorian lifestyle, men needs to go out with friends to have time where he can talk life and day’s experience without responsibilities of family.

Going by moral values and lifestyle, men normally goes out with friends in decent pubs, eats out, games show and theater to enjoy and relax from work and family 

responsibilities.

In India, during 1700 till late 1900,life of men getting relax moves around marriages, religious functions, theater and some time friends get other at home.

Eating out, drinking, pubs long drive, weekend homes came in late 1980 and in 2000,it became part of life style ,because of good money flow among youth and excess knowledge given by television and internet.

Here we are in India, especially New Delhi, we have culture, music. Drinking, games and you name it friends groups going out weekly or monthly and having good time.

From wiki

 Bachelor parties in the US often entail the mass consumption of alcohol, the hiring of a stripper and general rowdiness toward which the bride might not have a positive reaction (especially since the bride is typically not among the invitees).

Increasingly, bachelor parties have come to symbolize the last time when the groom is free of the influence of his new wife.

A bachelor party (Canada, South Africa and the US), also known as a stag party, stag night or stag do (especially in Commonwealth countries and Ireland), a bull's party (South Africa), or a buck's party or buck's night (Australia), is a party held for a man shortly before he enters marriage, to celebrate his "last night of freedom" or merely to spend time with his male friends, who are often at his wedding party afterwards.

COMMUNALLY THOUGHTS AND EVENTS PEOPLE DO

• Drinking - What party wouldn't have a lot of drinking? Since bachelor/ette parties are all about letting it hang out, drink harder.
• Pubs & Restaurants-Sitting in pub and watching and drinking with mood where you think nothing.

• Empty Friends house –Sitting at friends house where kids and wife are away, having dance drinks and dirty talks whole night long.

• Cook’s friends dinner-Going at friends who cooks well for friends and eating out good food friends had made.

• Gambling - For some reason gambling is sometimes present at bachelor parties. It is appropriate for a cut of the house winnings to go to the "stag" (the fund that is given to the groom at the end of the party).

• Drinking Games - You are going to need to drink fast and what better way to do it than drinking games (well, you could just drink shots).

• Eating greasy food - Pizza is good, buffalo wings, a gigantic sub, burgers, fried chicken, all of these are appropriate for a bachelor party.

• Playing With Party Favors - Part of the fun will surely be had with party favors.

• Dirty Jokes - OK, its time to tell the really raunchy ones. You know the ones that are not acceptable in the office.
• . Watching movies with friends

• More Drinking - If someone isn't out of control, you need to drink some more. Have you seen our guide to bachelor and bachelorette drinks?

We are gentleman and living in India, so talk about moral duties more than other talk which I suppose I am not able to write.

Anyways, happy reading and keep away from loose talks while going out with friends. Keep away jealous and super clever person in your group.

Please don’t drink and drive

Have a good and healthy talk, as we meet once these days in months.

I hope to write more on this topic in my book.

Man is known by the company he keeps.

THANKS

SHAILESH SHARMA POKHRIYAL

24/2/2012